Some people say that should not affect the feelings between husband and wife be love? In fact my wife and friends, the two most typical of intimacy. As a Marriage law of nature, the feeling of love can only stay for about two years, and the rest of the rest of my life long, if one is not to support a longer-lasting and deep relationship that marriage can be very dangerous.
Psychologist Sternberg "triangular relationship" theory of the three components of love, intimacy, passion and loyalty. Three innate love is perfect love. And if you love to remove the passion, the remaining close and loyal companion of love, love is mentioned.
Life shows many examples of this. Consider the example around, is the feeling of a good pair, not more than a few good friends? Often with a walk (or be involved in something else), talking while walking, they have some common interests, they are more and more together, they will discuss their work in each other's happiness and stress, and the others, their own right share views and understanding of life, they know and understand each other, make each other relaxed, without disguise and camouflage, as they accompany each other as good friends and support.
In contrast, in consultation emotions are very similar to the case, the woman discovered her husband had been suffering a third party. At this time, only to find his wife, I do not know if, in addition to the daily needs, and children, and her husband have no other topic, two people are not accustomed to sharing the heart and mind. Over time, the feeling of love and friendship has not been established, this time the crisis appeared in the marriage.
Recently gave Wuming local forum titled "accidentally saw a flat Wuming ridiculous billboards stop, my heart is sour!" The mail, so that all users attention. Posted by "Shun-wave in the notes," the way to work saw a huge billboard that says: "He said: × × Liyuan not in the house, not to marry" message, the posting said, as it can not afford able housing in order to see this billboard is not too happy. Also included among the articles and photos.
A problem that addressed only after a fierce friends, 3 days, more than 2,000 hits people, nearly a hundred answers. User "Figure pregnant," quipped: More user answers that do not have a house in a specific Liyuan, there is no qualification for a friend, "It seems that in other places, a house can be bought white knot of marriage." not qualified to get married What? This is not the idea of money and material for the breeding of poor practices, or? Some people think that this ad to attention, now led attract so many people discuss the developers, the target was reached,.
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